I set a goal for myself several weeks ago to work on being more nurturing. I want to praise my children more. I struggled with my goal, mostly because I'd forget about it. So this week I renewed my goal and put a reminder on my bathroom mirror. I am trying to find things to praise, but my children are making that very difficult. Laura and Peter will NOT do anything that I ask them to do when I'm helping them with their homework, with chores, at meal time, at bedtime, when its time to get dressed, time to get in the car, time to breathe! They struggle with something, and then when I give them a strategy to make their struggle easier, they promptly ignore my advice. It's as if they know I'm trying to become a better person and they don't want me to, so they're doing everything in their power to make me want to kill them, instead of praise them.
AHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
*** Can you tell I'm a little frustrated as I type this? Just imagine one of those cartoon bulls with steam coming out of its ears - that's me right now! ***